Health and Wellness 6 Ways Porn Has Affected Women's Sex Lives Today
6 Ways Porn Has Affected Women’s Sex Lives Today   
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Porn has gained in popularity over previous years. This widespread acceptance has begun to affect relationships. Women are speaking out against porn and its negative consequences on their relationships.

Believe it or not, porn can have a role within a healthy sexual relationship. Porn can function as a fun way to see new positions or a new turn on.

This article will not try to deter anyone from watching porn, but rather find a way for it to be included within a healthy relationship.

If you are not sure how porn affects a woman’s sex life, then read on to learn. We will discuss six ways that porn affects where, when, how, and why women have sex with men, as well as ways to overcome these issues.

1. Porn Desensitizes Togetherness

A void of intimacyMany claim that porn creates a void of intimacy. It is as if having sex with a real life woman is never enough.

In fact one woman claims she felt as if she was simply being masturbated, as opposed to making love with someone. She claims her boyfriend would watch porn while she simply lay there next to him.

Occasionally, he would want to actually have real-life sex. So, he would roll over and have sex with her. But, most of the time he was perfectly content by himself.

No woman should feel as though she is an additional sex toy to a man’s fantasy. In fact, there is scientific explanation behind why this unfortunately occurs to many women.

Behavioral therapists claim that the issue is that people rely on the same type of stimulus to become aroused. So, they continually need that stimulus to become excited again. This is why it is possible to watch too much porn.

How To Fix It

Our advice is to talk with your partner. If you legitimately have an emotional connection with this person, then they will understand how you feel. Or, at least care about your feelings. It is possible for them to wean off of their porn fetish.

Perhaps you can help reenact one of their favorite pornographic scenes as opposed to watching it. Be aware that he may not be fully satisfied with this option, since you may not be able to match the scene.

Instead, why not create your own fake little scenario? If you are up to it, become a bit more deviant for him. And, he will never crave the fake, unemotional sex that is connected to porn again.

2. Hook Ups Become The Only Option

Men who become obsessed and reliant on porn tend to only hook up with women as opposed to building lasting relationships. Sex, as we have established, is nothing to be coveted by these men.

So, a hook up is acceptable. Not only is a hook up acceptable, but it is the sexiest option.

These men find hook ups to be exciting and fun, and they want the constant thrill of the experience. Therefore, these men urge to hook up with more and more different women. It will never be acceptable to them to hook up with the same woman, as that is not as exhilarating.

As a consequence of many men turning to this option, women are beginning to believe that something is wrong with them. Women who allow themselves to fall to temptation and have a random hook up have a huge blow to their self-esteem, while the man simply moves on.

How To Fix It

Our advice is to try your best not to fall prey to the random hook up. Unless you are perfectly fine being the belle of the hour, do not allow yourself to be that night’s only option. This can only lead to pain and hurt, and you certainly do not want that.

Meeting the man of your dreams will not occur in a random hook up, anyway. Instead, partake in activities you enjoy. Become comfortable with yourself, and the right man will come along.

3. Porn Dictates Sex

Too often, porn scenarios are reenacted on unsuspecting women. Years ago, it would not be normal for a man to request something deviant during the first sexual encounter. But, now it is all too common.

Men watch porn and believe that the sex they see is normal. Then, when they are in bed with an unsuspecting woman, these women fall victim to unusual rough and deviant sex. Women can be made to feel uncomfortable with this type of sex. And, many definitely do not welcome it with open arms.

Sex is supposed to be an emotional connection between two people, but porn takes the emotion out of sex. The emotion replacing this connection is anger, pain and hurt. This emotion is then transferred onto the poor, unsuspecting woman.

How To Fix It

Any woman who finds herself in the act with a man who is pushing it too far must stand up for herself. A woman can quickly become in a threatening situation if a man is too domineering. Therefore, make sure to take it slow with the person whom you choose to have sex with.

Make sure that you are comfortable with your partner. The second you are not, strongly stand up for yourself. If they are a genuine partner, then they will respect your feelings. If not then run, and run quickly.

4. Porn Messes With Body Perception

Similarly to how a woman becomes self-conscious after watching actresses and super models, the women in pornographic videos can lead to major issues with self-esteem.

Typically, these actresses have perfect breasts, flawless vaginas, and seemingly sensual body proportions.

In fact, records of labioplasty and breast augmentation have skyrocketed within the last few years. One can attribute this spike to porn and other imagines of seemingly perfect women. It is quite disconcerting that women are intentionally changing their bodies to become more like the women that their boyfriends pine after.

How To Fix It

Our recommendation, however cliché it sounds, is to love the skin you are in. Recognize that you are worth more than simply sex. You are a remarkable, beautiful woman in your own original way. If you begin to alter that uniqueness with plastic surgery, than you are tampering with what made you so special in the first place.

Body parts, such as genitals, are naturally supposed to change with age. While porn stars may appear to have perfect light and tight vaginas, it can actually hinder sexual performance by altering these parts of the genitals. How ironic is it that in our attempt to become more like porn stars, we actually squander our sexual chances?

5. Pornographic Sex Is Not As Great As Real Sex

Female orgasmUnfortunately, porn is becoming the new form of sex education. Anyone can conduct a Google search on porn. A young boy may enter this into a search engine in the hopes to see breasts.

But, what he quickly finds is rough and deviant sex. Now, this young man’s perception of sex is altered and this is what he may attempt when he one day has sex.

The positions and ways that men go about having sex in porn are not comfortable or appealing for women. They do not cater to the female orgasm, and many claim that they are not even pleasurable in the slightest. Porn is taking away all of the pleasurable aspects of sex. Men expect much more out of sex than they will receive, and women are left simply unsatisfied. This sets everyone up for failure, and ultimately takes away from the experience as a whole.

How to Fix It

Embrace your partner and never rush a position or fetish simply because it is what you saw in a pornographic flick. Do what feels right, and never force anything. You will not be comfortable, if you just do it to make your partner happy. And, therefore no one will be satisfied.

6. Porn Creates Sexual Anxiety For Everyone

Sex is supposed to be a fun and engaging experience for all. However, porn can cause a great deal of anxiety for everyone involved. Men watching porn and assume that they should be able to perform just like the men they see in the films.

It is not realistic for men to be able to have an erection immediately, perform so enthusiastically for extended periods of time, and finish on demand. Therefore, when men do not perform this way, they feel inadequate. Likewise, women can feel the same way as we have mentioned before.

How To Fix It

The best fix for this issue is to find yourself in a healthy relationship. Take the time to build up trust and respect with your significant other before having sex. This will allow for a strong connection between the two of you, so that no one will feel inadequate or uncomfortable in any way.

It is a shame that porn can have such a negative effect on our sexual lives. Porn can have such a fun and positive place in the bedroom. But, it can be overdone. If you find yourself in a situation where you partner is becoming too overly obsessed with porn, make sure you communicate your concern with them. Express your desire for a healthy sexual relationship, and if they do not agree or are hesitant, then reconsider the relationship.

No one should be placed second best to fake sex. We recommend you to build healthy and lasting relationships, and enjoy sex. Do not become a victim to it.

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